oh dear ; I have a run in my pantyhose ; wait a second, I’m not wearing any
* quote above is from my favouritest movie of all time … do you know it ?
yesterday marked the beginning to a new era for me - although this revelation has been going on for some time, for people are so rude to me all the time - and luckily for me, confrontation and I go hand in hand bitches, beware !
… I just think it is necessary for myself, to write this one down, for this exact thing has happend over five times this year alone .
I don’t strive to be anything that I am not - I know I work hard, and that by me working as hard as I do, it has paid off in a huge way [ i.e my job, apartment, boyfriend etc …] and I know people will be jealous … I know everyone has it inside of them … but what I don’t understand is why people who I don’t even consider a friend, decide to try and publicly humiliate me - in the most none humiliating way … over facebook, so immature, and non-origional .
I was best friends with this girl … lets call her C, when I was little … like really little … maybe six years old ! She lived across the street from my grandmum and we played together whenever I visited [which was every day lol] .
So of course, people move and grow, and this was long before facebook or basic IM-ing … so we lost touch … naturally.
A few years ago now, (possibly seven or eight) my grandmum ran into C’s mum at the grocery store - they talked about us, etc - until facebook came up, and they decided we should add one another … so I did.
I have spoken to her, mmmaaaaayyyybbbbeeee three times over facebook - in the shortest possible installments.
my status yesterday afternoon read : “ I adore how my boss took me to LG FASHION WEEK “
C’s comment on my status : “you seem to be a very superficial and un real kind of person i dont want you on my list. Step into reality hunny or find some new friends hahaha thats hilarious”
naturally I find myself stunned that such a comment comes from someone I don’t talk to … coming from a facebook stalker myself, I creep photos etc of people I speak to once in a blue moon, but whenever I have the urge to comment I think to myself ” how insane would that be to randomly comment on someone’s things when I never speak to them ” and I continue my stalk … just like that.
So I wrote her back … but not on her wall, in a private message because who the eff writes rude things like that on someone’s wall, I don’t stoop to such levels - let alone at all … such a classy person she is indeed !
here is my response back to her …
” I am pretty stunned at your comment .
where do you get off telling me that I am superficial ?
what I post is part of my job, this is what I have an undergrad and a post graduate in - I work hard and earn every dollar I make .
Being jealous will get you no where in life C .
Also please note, I do not think of you as a friend, just because it says so on facebook doesn’t make it so — we were little when we knew each other and after your mum and my grandma ran into each other years ago, your mum asked my grandma if I had facebook and I kindly searched for you to see how you and your family were doing, do not be mistaken .
With jealousy issues like that - I am not sure how you have any friends at all.
Just because I had a goal as a kid and have worked my ass off to make my dreams come true doesn’t mean I am superficial - maybe you need to go to school to learn the meaning of the terminology you throw around, for there are over a hundred other words you should of used .
in case you need clarification on what you wrote …
“you seem to be a very superficial and un real kind of person i dont want you on my list. Step into reality hunny or find some new friends hahaha thats hilarious”
also you might want to check your spelling .
xoxo [in the superficial kind of way]
